_Sky,
I'm with Emmy here........there are people asking about your feelings. We see the lists and the distinctions but it doesn't tell us what is going on with you.
Thank you for the link to that site. I found a lot of good information on the pages I flipped through.
As for your last sentence I do not know how to respond.
Everybody here is working on communication skills so misunderstandings are bound to happen. If we can discuss what is troubling you (if that is even close to what you are feeling.......I'm guessing.....I'm not clairvoyant) then we can better know what your needs are.
Lists out of context and with one liners leave us

for more.