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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
I think one of those instances taken in isolation is one thing but added together it sounds like your bf has very precise ideas of what he wants from you. What is your own personal gut feeling on these exacting expectations of you? How would you envisage yourself several years down the line living within the precise parameters he’s set you?
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+100%, great summary
He does seem like that kind of guy. That on its own isn't wrong, the devil's in the details
Like, if he's like too rigid and unable to forgive any "mistake" or other thing deviating from these expectations, or if he wants to enforce all these requirements without being at all reasonable it will be obvious I think.