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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed
Its just when I tried coming out to another therapist a few years before, she didn't believe me and told me I was just confused so I was very scared to tell another therapist because I was worried I would just be told I was confused again.
That first therapist really messed me up but all my current providers say she was very wrong for calling me confused and they are dissapointed that a therapist would say that to a client.
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Right. So it’s not that your current T is special (I mean they might be! But not because they believe you that you’re trans
) it’s that previous T was absolutely terrible in this regard.
Sometimes when we’ve been treated badly for a long time we think there’s something super special about a person who treats us normally. With respect to your gender, current T is just being normal.