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Originally Posted by Rive.
That's amazing Have Hope. Good for you for taking the steps to get help + communicating with hubby about your needs.
I hope this T works out for you both. She seems to fit the bill on paper and again, good stuff advocating for yourself!
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rive, thank you!
I hope she works out too - now I just need to figure out what to say to the current therapist about changing therapists, for both my individual therapy and our couples therapy. I know I shouldn't care since I pay for this out of my own pocket, but I do care about how it comes across.
I think I should just keep it general and tell him this isn't quite the right fit for me/us, but that he will keep going individually to see him? What I really want to do is be honest and tell him how I truly feel - that I feel unsupported in my perspective and stance on things with my husband, who has been abusive towards me and who exhibited these traits only just a couple weeks ago again.