This is what I just wrote to her - I kind of let her have it… it may be a bit harsh, but whatever. I’m paying her and for what?

Hi Janet. I’d like to cancel our 2nd appt that is scheduled in a couple weeks. I’ve processed our first session and have determined it’s not a good match for me. Your thought process is far too black and white for me, and I don’t like that you said you can’t work with me if I’m unwilling to stand up to my husband. I felt you jumped to false conclusions based on very little info and when you’re missing the whole picture. You also jumped to false conclusions about me, again, with not enough info. Frankly, I’m very put off by your tone overall and by your approach. I need someone who can help strengthen me and sit with me through the murkiness, regardless. That doesn’t seem to be you. Therefore, I don’t wish to proceed further. Thank you.