You will be working on your sobriety every moment for the rest of your life (if you're lucky). It's good work. It's often a guideline that an addict should not have a relationship with another HEALTHY person for at least the first year of sobriety, often longer.
You have picked an unhealthy person (also an addict) to have a relationship with. It's not going to work and your focus needs to be you YOU being healthy. Would you rather be with someone who threatens your sobriety every day and makes you feel like you do now for the rest of your life or would you rather be sober, healthier and by yourself?
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