This is kinda strange but last night I kinda got how the whole reassurance thing isnt always helpful. I have been feeling very sick lately and last night my mom said dinner would be ready right at 3. I asked a couple of times. She reassured me it would be ready at 3. And it wasn't ready at 3. Then I freaked out a bit just because of all the other personal stuff going on. But its like if I had just not asked in the first place when dinner was going to be ready and accepeted that it could possibly be later then normal then I wouldnt have had an issue in the first place.

Sorry I hope I am somewhat making sense. I do seem to get it now.