I personally would just live and let live stop trying to fit in be you befriend whoever's you choose to and release the control they have over you. With that said I don't do clicks, I'm kind to everyone friends with a few but not really close to anyone.

I was in a click and hated it. Being told to snub certain people I'd rather just be me. Focus on being a good wife to your husband. Work to maintain that relationship. Let the feathers fly elsewhere. Of course in a perfect world everyone gets along but the world isn't perfect.