Actually, in the recent past, he has said things like "I'm not perfect" and "I will work on it", when I've pointed out the behaviors.

He seems to have been ramping up recently for a release of pent up emotions. And unfortunately, that all came down on ME.

I feel pretty discouraged right now about all of this. I had a dream last night where I told him I am not happy. Or, I told someone I am married to that I am not happy. It wasn't even him in the dream.

I am not happy about these recent incidents, that's for sure. And I feel like pulling back from him as a direct result.