I mean, what kind of therapist says "you've been choosing abusive relationships" in the very first meeting and without knowing my background/childhood and without knowing the context of any of those relationships? That's automatic victim blaming. I am astounded by this woman, after only one meeting! And then to also assume that I never stand up for myself with my husband, despite having left him a year ago?

Sometimes I cannot believe the words I am writing on here. That woman is a terrible therapist and does not deserve a license. She could actually do more harm than good. Thank goodness I had the wherewithal to withdraw from her.