I don't see how one person could be "responsible for ruining my view of the opposite gender" - that is giving a lot of power, too much even, to another. Your views ought to be yours, not shaped by anyone else.
Re how you describe this friend: move on. You have different values, she lets you down, you are the one running after this 'friendship'. It feels like hard work when you don't seem to even like her that much.
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