My T is very forgetful. Not just forgetting small details of things which I would expect but often things that are important to me or things that we have spoken about a few times. One of my core wounds relates to being forgotten about and often overlooked so I am very sensitive to being forgotten so I am aware that some of the things she forgets may not impact someone else quite so much. She knows her forgetting things has a HUGE impact on me.

Yesterday she forgot something else about a family memeber which is quite significant. I am trying to assess whether this is the final straw for me. or if I am over reacting and expecting too much based on my triggers and past wounding. I don't want to put it down here in too much detail so am wondering if anyone would be okay with me sharing it in a DM to get their perspective.

Edited to add: I mostly always bring up the things she forgets or talk about how it impacts me.