I find it very difficult when T’s forget important details and conversely, it makes me feel very connected and cared about if they spontaneously bring up themes and details from previous sessions. Even, “I kind of remember something you said about xyz a while back, what was was it? [refers to notes for a few seconds] Oh yes, that this thing happened and you felt blah blah blah…” is 100% fine with me. I don’t expect perfect recall, the effort of keeping good notes and then using them is plenty.