I have to start with it's an honor, because not a day goes by that Linklater and Company don't help me make it through another day!

So, it seems like if she doesn't meet you at least half way, there is no excuse. Love can be interpreted in a lot of ways, but if you feel hurt and tired, and invalidated or not valued, legit, what was that film called??
GET OUT!

I am not *disclaimer* telling you your business, but I often feel people view support as often a thin veil to hide behind, instead of warning you that this may lead to some long term damage.
Not everyone has the choice to leave. If it feels wrong, trust you, and see who does the leg work if it's for real. I feel protective of you, so be real about your feelings, and if she denies another trip to Saint Diego, I'm for real, you don't deserve this.

LM