Thank you so much! I think that's why I just haven't replied yet, I don't want things to start off on a bad foot if we do decide to go ahead. I think you are right, I should wait for my T to return and see what she has to say about it. I'm wondering also whether she might get in touch with her on my behalf?? I would be ok with that. I don't find talking about any of this easy at all, another reason I am reticent to take her up on the phone call. Emails are my go to for sure, but I know on the flip side some people really struggle to put what they are thinking down 'on paper', which could be another thing going ok for her. Thank you, I really appreciate your time in replying!