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Old Apr 21, 2022, 10:45 AM
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I'm so sorry that people blamed you and hit you. And it must have been terrifying for people to be breaking stuff in anger. I'm really sorry you have had to experience that.



You did not deserve any of that.

You do not make people do things like break furniture. You don't have that kind of power.

They choose violence and then blame you afterwards. It was always their fault, not yours.

Those thoughts you get are not true. I bet you are right though about where they come from: it sounds like people hurt and terrified you if you didn't make them happy.

Willowtigger is a kind, caring, thoughtful person. It is good to make people happy when you love/care about them, like you did yesterday with your exceedingly kind words to Fuzzybear. But you don't have to make everyone happy, most especially people who hurt you and are mean to you. I think you should ignore and avoid such people as much as you possibly can.

((((((((Willowtigger))))))))

Last edited by bluekoi; Apr 22, 2022 at 12:04 AM. Reason: continuity
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