Tbh in our 3.5 years together he has never been anything less than supportive and loving, but I guess he’s really feeling the stress. He definitely shouldn’t have said it because I am already feeling too dependent on him and something like that just kind of sealed the deal for me - now I won’t be telling him anything unless my clinician is going to tell him first. It’s going to tip our relationship into an unhealthy stage. But hopefully I might be able to work it out with my clinician the reason for my hyper independence anyway.