The recital went very well. Caleb liked it because it was live but added that he wouldn't've listened had it been a recording. And he said that the sound engineering sucked- even though he knew that that was my kids' dad doing the sound. Dinner was ok. Quite tasty actually. I had steak with mashed potatoes and Mac n cheese. Then we split bananas foster for dessert. Caleb always spends the night when he visits but he decided he wanted to drive the 2 hours home starting at 1030. He said he had a good time so why did he leave? Ah well. The smoking wasn't an issue after all- he smoked while we were outside walking from dinner to a shop that we visited to kill time before the recital. So that took care of what to do between dinner and the show. I think he also went outside to smoke after the recital because he disappeared for a while. But all in all the smoking wasn't a huge deal. Im kind of glad he went home tonight so that I can go to sleep when I want tonight.