Thanks, Have Hope, for th validation and clarity of responce.
I should clarify on my end that I am an extremly private person and I need a ton of alone time. She would want to meet once or twice a week, while every two weeks is already too much for me. I can do every 2 weeks, or even 3 times in 4 weeks if once is during the week, but that is really my limit meeting people over all. So if I spend all that time on her, it's too little for her and too much for me. Just pointing that out to ensure it is clear that I feel my needs may be more socially inapt than her's.
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