My T, who also did some couple sessions with me and my wife, got a divorce and moved, and she never told me. It was during COVID so she didn’t tell me about the move til it came time for us to meet in person and then she told me she moved 2 hours away so we could only do Zoom. It crushed me. And then I found out thru a mutual friend that she got a divorce, which was her second one. That made me question her ability to do couple counseling. It has changed everything about therapy