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Originally Posted by AliceKate
Thanks, Have Hope, for th validation and clarity of responce.
I should clarify on my end that I am an extremly private person and I need a ton of alone time. She would want to meet once or twice a week, while every two weeks is already too much for me. I can do every 2 weeks, or even 3 times in 4 weeks if once is during the week, but that is really my limit meeting people over all. So if I spend all that time on her, it's too little for her and too much for me. Just pointing that out to ensure it is clear that I feel my needs may be more socially inapt than her's.
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You're welcome.

I don't think you need to explain or justify yourself. If she's too needy for you and demands too much from you, then it is what it is and you need far more space than she allows. And that's perfectly OK!