That is a serious thank you, I tip my hat, and will ALWAYS remind you, or anyone else here, there is no one that should be studying to play games with you, and if that's somehow a position you are in, go full Jordan Peele, GET OUT!

If they treat you poorly now, what happens when times are tough, hell to the no!

I still have wild stereotypes about guys, that now in my mid century I have the guts to ask other males or seek other perspectives about them, without my own ******** getting in the way of trying to understand where the person or people I care about are coming from. However, if you have someone close, intimate, and giving you red flags left and right, get out before like you said, no legal marriage yet, big out there. Mistreatment is something mentally ill people have had to learn to take for granted, let alone the official notices about those who bully us. Keepeth thy head always up and going in the direction you want, that's so mean, I hope things are better for you today!! GO TEJAS.