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Old Apr 26, 2022, 09:58 AM
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The harder you work the more play you need. A stable relationship can be that play. Still…not sure why he’s talking marriage already. You can lose your benefits with marriage, does he know that?
I have no idea if he knows that or not, I wouldn't mind a relationship eventually with someone but not with someone who's thinking of marriage and stuff like that already. And he's not just saying this stuff like as like a side comment like it's just thinking about something far into the future , he's been trying to get me to answer like how long I would want to wait until I wanted to get married etc stuff like that and saying he would want to as soon as possible, all these details about us living together. etc and I'm like I can't just marry you and if that's what you want then you need to find someone else because I would not be ready for that for a LONG time if ever. That's why the more he talks about it/brings it up, the more I'm realizing it won't work, not meaning any relationship wouldn't work, but us, we wouldn't work because he's so focused on moving in together and getting married as soon as possible. I get that we dated in high school but that was a long time ago and we can't just pick up where we left off 10 plus years ago
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