charlotte, you know that is quite interesting. I'm so glad that I actually went to work out of state which finally cleared my head because i was so convinced i was in love, and even though the bastard broke up with me on my birthday, I thought he cared about me. I beleive i would have never tried weed if i had never been in that relationship. I wasn't addicted, but probably would have continued if i did stick around him. Thankfully the stuff got out of my system before I got drug tested! If I tested positive and didnt get to work the job that i was longing for, I would have come back to michigan and beat the crap out of him for messing with my future. I am soooo thankful I went out of state, it matured me very much.