Beth, I understand about the feeding cats thing. I had 2 cats who were supposed to be on wildly different diets and the support groups for both acted like i was killing each of them by not using the recommenced food. I spent literally hours in the pet store finding meds that suited both of their needs plus my own refusal to feed them grains and that I could afford. I eventually had a bunch of foods I knew were safe fore both but even then they were worried I'd left a kidney failure cat fee feed dry food. The truth was that she was 21 and had no teeth so only the other cat ate the dry stuff. Even my vet didn't think I could find a diet to suit both of them and suggested supervised eating in different rooms. It was obviously someone who didn't live in a small one bedroom apartment.

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