I know that "unconditional" love is supposed to be the goal, but I don't feel it should be.

I will love someone as long as they treat me well. If they start to take advantage or become abusive, then the love should stop. Does that mean I put conditions on love? Absolutely! But that is a good thing. When I think of unconditional love, I think of people who stay in abusive relationships to keep a vow even though it is hurting them.