She brought it up to me. I never considered it before that really and thought it was important to keep the family together and healthy as possible. It’s not an emergency situation to get him out necessarily, but that’s because I made some changes around here after she let me know how much his problems effect her. I made more of a buffer between him and us. Neither one of could handle how he had slowing but surely taken our the whole house.
I told him we need to separate the other day and she saw me flustered afterwards. I did tell her what I said to him, and she was fine with it. She’s told me it’s what she wants because she wants to have her life not be overshadowed by his illness and addiction. She did interact with him quite a bit afterwards and came to me for many hugs.