
May 07, 2022, 09:31 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour
Today I had coffee at my house with an American woman who lives within walking-distance of my house. A lady we met here gave me her number. I confess I was delinquent about calling the fellow American. She actually called me while I was in the US, so had to cut the call short because of the steep phone charges. This morning I finally called her since we're now home in CZ. She came over with her maybe 5-year old daughter. She was pleasant and communicative, but the daughter was a bit out of control, unfortunately. She mentioned there is another American (a young au pair) who sometimes lives in our village area. I suggested we all go for a walk sometime soon. She is an artist/stay at home mom and her husband is the director of an international school downtown in the city. Perhaps even my husband and hers might meet up to maybe make friends. She said she's 40, while I'm 50. Her husband looks in his late 50s, while mine is in his early 60s. I don't see these age differences as significant. Only our lack of children as a possible disconnect.
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Overall, that sounds really nice.
I understand about the children (or child) thing. I have a friend who wants to visit me - the one I mentioned in my previous post to you. She's raising her grandchild, and while I am pretty sure the little girl is sweet and well-behaved, I can't be positive. And I can hardly believe I'm admitting this, me who always adored being around kids - but I'm concerned about my cats. What if my friend's granddaughter is the type of kid who opens and closes the front door a lot (a danger of letting a cat out), or picks up cats in a hurtful way...so on and so forth. I feel like a terrible, mean old lady, but the truth is that the situation could be very awkward. My friend was never one to set good boundaries for her children.
Anyway, the friendship(s) sound like they have a decent potential for you and your husband. Let's hope so. Time will tell.
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