Sadly often times when the person says that they are rethinking a relationship because… insert anything on this planet… busy at work, developed illnesses, old illnesses came back, tired, too busy, not ready etc etc means they want out and have to come up with a plausible excuse to make a break up easier. Not saying it’s always the case but it usually is.

My husband has Tourette’s with severe OCD/anxiety and he does get some panic attacks related to anxiety. Yes I knew it I think on a third date. It’s a none issue for me or our marriage. It runs in their family. It is what it is. People have all kind of health things. No one is 100% healthy.

I don’t know how marriage could help or not help. Marriage isn’t a solution for whatever issues, health or otherwise. I don’t think you should enter marriage in hopes to heal her. It doesn’t work this way. She should take care of her health by seeing a doctor, going to therapy. Perhaps she needs meds. You can’t fix her. health.

But then again if she is reconsidering the whole thing, i don’t think thinking of marriage is wise. You should only marry when both you are 100% sure. Why not just date for awhile. What’s the rush?