Hi!

I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years.
I love my partner and he loves me. Why am i writing here? Because i want to know if there are other couples who have troubles with keeping the flame in the relationship.

I am not sure when it began, maybe 1 year ago.. I started feeling that the relationship is a bit monotonous. We talk about work and usual stuff. Sex is good but we do it once a week only. My partner is ok with less sex, but i wanted more. But now i accepted it and it is not such a big deal.

The problem is that i dont know if our relationship will survive eternally. I really love my partner but i dont feel that attracted anymore. Sometimes i feel bored.

I even had sex fantasies about a friend. Nothing happened in real life. But the fact that i thought about another man is disturbing me. I dont want to mess up.
Can you share your experience ? I would be thankful if you recommend me good literature or movies about the topic.

Looking forward to your honest answers!