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Originally Posted by eskielover
Give her a chance to see if it is any part of her depression/anxiety first before moving on. I knew within a couple of months because I could feel my depression & anxiety go & realized I didn't even miss him or actually think about him after 33 years married to him. I would think she would be able to realize fairly quickly.....but you just need to be prepared that it might not go the way you expected..but it might be all OK also. Decision how to deal with the possibilities is a personal one only you can make. (BTW, there was no one else in my life either....still isn't after all these years cause I need my peace....but that was me).
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Yeah I'm just gonna let her be and let her just focus on herself until things calm down a bit.
When she was talking about rethinking about our relationship, she still told me that she loves me in that situation. So it's so hard to give up with those words.
But if she realize that I'm part of it, I should respect it..