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Originally Posted by eskielover
Just give her the time & space cause pushing it can push her away rather than bringing her closer. Doesn't mean not checking in to see how she is doing to let her know you care but the other things you suggested at this point could definitely look like disrespecting her request to have time to rethink
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Yeah I am definitely going to respect her wishes. I am sure she will reach back to me once time comes. Me worrying about this right now wont do anything. Its actually going to affect my mental health as well.
So I am just going to let her be and mine my business for now.
But for the time being, I want to believe this all happened due to the business trip. She was on it for 2 months. 14 hr difference. It was supposed to be for 3 weeks but with quarantine, even before going to the trip she said she was feeling down. The covid process was so ****** with her destination country, so she had to guess and pray that nothing goes wrong once she arrives there, she was stuck at the airbnb for a week for the quarantine, online class back from here in USA, then had to work remotely due to covid at work, went to doctor's for general check up and found several things like in her thyroid, tonsil, helicobacter pylori etc. So she had to stay there for another 4 weeks to get treated. While she was moving to a different airbnb, had to carry all those heavy luggage by herself just to realize that the place was f-ed up. On top of that she was tested positive for covid during the last week for the trip. Then when she finally came back, her boss talked about potential promotion to different department as a manager, or a raise. If she becomes the manager, her work and life balance will be totally different, frequent business trip where it will affect our relationship. Her HQ is moving to the west, etc and etc. Her brother was staying at her house while she was away and the place was trashed, smelled like cigarette and weed, her dog's face and butt was f-ed up because her brother only fed the dog wet food. Poop and pee stains everywhere on the carpet. She already has poor work and life balance, She does late night meetings at 10PM at least twice a week. Plus studies show that the corona virus can cause depression as due to attacking the nervous system even months after recovery. Lastly she hasnt had a time to spend just for herself after coming back here even though she was getting treated and getting recovered during the trip.