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Originally Posted by BreakForTheLight
I recognise this helplessness from both my mum and my grandmother. I think my granddad did everything for my grandma so she never learned to do things on her own. Never had any interest in it either. When he died, her kids took over in basically managing her life.
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My mom, for all that she's helpless and has a lot of difficulty making decisions, also tries to control everything and doesn't accept other people's advice. Did your mom and grandmother conflict with their kids and disagree with their decisions/advice all the time? Or did they just go with the flow?