Thanks for posting what you did. Since I have been single for so long I have few memories of my past relationship except that the ending was very amiable. I think we both just grew tired of each other and wanted to start new lives. We shared an apartment and one day we both moved out. I remember that my mood for the next years was: "Wow, I'm so glad I am free." There were no calls or visits after that. Of course there were no children involved so obviously my situation was different than yours.

I think it is good that you post your state of mind here. Posting day to day might be helpful. Sadly I am not any kind of expert of what is "helpful." I did like reading your post and will look forward to reading anything else you choose to post. I hope that with the passage of time that things will become better for you so that you can have a deep peace of mind and joy of living. Wish I knew what else to say.