I'm also sorry LT. I don't think it sounds selfish either. Like you were depending on having that week to process and deal with going back to virtual and now he seems to be pulling back on his word. That' s kind of a trust issue. And you are right, it does sound like he is abdicating responsibility by pushing it off on his wife. Not owning the decision himself. That would bother me too. HUGS if wanted, Kit