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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty
I'm also sorry LT. I don't think it sounds selfish either. Like you were depending on having that week to process and deal with going back to virtual and now he seems to be pulling back on his word. That' s kind of a trust issue. And you are right, it does sound like he is abdicating responsibility by pushing it off on his wife. Not owning the decision himself. That would bother me too. HUGS if wanted, Kit
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Thanks, Kit. The validation helps. Of course it was something that came out right as I was leaving--I was hoping he'd reaffirm the week thing, but nope! Had I not just emailed him yesterday morning (was a good exchange), I might have done that, but I'll just talk to him next session about it--at the beginning, not the end!
In terms of the week's notice, he may just not want to be guaranteeing me something that he might need to pull back on, like making promises he can't keep, but he already kind of did that, so.... But maybe he realized he shouldn't have told me it would be that long of a lead time.