Dear T,
I had a realization about something, in terms of generally feeling OK that you found my knowing your birthday "maybe a little bit weird" (or whatever words you used).

Maybe it’s actually more about *my* reaction? With the stone, your finding it a bit “weird” or “creepy” felt like the end of the world to me, like “Oh no, now he’s going to reject me.” But now it’s like, “OK, so he’s a little weirded out by it, it’s OK, he’s not going to abandon me over it.” Like more security in the relationship (and also knowing how easily weirded out your are!). And maybe growth in general on my part? Something to discuss Monday maybe.

Love,
LT