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Old May 14, 2022, 11:08 PM
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I haven't followed it that closely, but all the comments just being so vile towards Amber Heard - whether she's being honest or lying - does she have a personality disorder or something else - I find it very disturbing. So many perfectly willing to judge her because they love Johnny, and I always say believe women, it's so uncommon that a woman would actually lie about this kind of abuse, and to this extent. But I don't know what the truth is... I suspect, as usual, it's somewhere in the middle.

It's viral because it's Johnny Depp and the world loves him. I agree with you, this should not be publicized.

I guess, what I want to say is they both can be true. Johnny could have been bad to her and she could have mental disorders. One doesn't preclude the other. And my problem is the world wants it to be black and white. I grew up with domestic violence. My dad has NPD, my mom BPD. They both did bad stuff, and to each other. They both were hurt by each other. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

Anyways, I understand. I hate seeing it everywhere. I hate that it's someone's private argument. I hate that it's overly simplified to be all good or all bad. I hate that none of us will ever know what really happened but lots of people want to play like they can know, with no compassion or empathy at all.
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