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Originally Posted by Bill3
She may be perfectionistic and intolerant about lying, but that doesn't mean you have to be.
In my view, and without telling you what to do in this specific situation, you don't have to tell her everything that you do, or that crosses your mind, on the theory that she would consider it to be impermissible lying if you don't. She doesn't get to decide what choices are right for you.
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thank you! <3 that was my train of thought, too... since I haven't flirted with anyone on tinder and was very upfront about not being single. I wasn't even thinking of telling until recently we were watching a tv show that had a couple hiding (insignificant) things from each other... and she made a point that this kind of behavior would make her end things.