Ah Beth, it’s fine, I didn’t take it the wrong way because I feel the exact same way. I know it’s useless I just have to convince my SIL it’s useless and impress upon my brother and my SIL the severity of the situation. I need to stop feeling responsible for my brother’s feelings and trying to protect him and tell him that it is a fire AND health hazard at this point. She literally could die. I don’t think he understands as neither of them have been there since they announced their pregnancy to her (5 years).