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Starlingflock
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Default May 17, 2022 at 09:11 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
I think you are expecting your children to put up with the same kind of father you did. Can you see that?

It’s not something you did on purpose. Yet you could not save your father and you can’t save your husband either. And, they both chose to put that burden on your shoulders. That’s not fair to you and it’s not fair to your children either.

You never had an actually healthy adult partner, instead you have basically been the only parent and your husband is just your third child. Your husband still doesn’t want to grow up. Instead your husband wants to smoke pot and get high and live in an illusion.
I can see that they’ve had similar experiences. Nothing done on purpose since I love my children most and want the best for them. They’re great people, and suffer with anxiety and depression. Perhaps they couldn’t have escaped that due to genetics. My children are very intelligent, talented, and thoughtful and I want them to develop fulfilling lives that they enjoy.
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