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Originally Posted by Rive.
When she said this question ought to be asked to the group, you could have said 'fair enough' and done just that. Instead, you were pushing her boundaries because *you* thought she was a close friend etc etc. Clearly, this is not how she felt. Her feelings ought to have been respected, rather than you getting angry and blaming or reproaching her for not reciprocating.
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I would like to clarify a bit. When she first said I don't need to know her opinion on this, I just said that I was asking as a friend but if she thinks it is overstepping I won't bother her from now on. I only got angry after she said we aren't friends in reply. Plus, I did not spring that up out of the blue. We had discussed about the nature of charity and non-profits at length before this.
Ideally, I should post the whole conversation but I don't think that would be appropriate.