Hello all. I am 27 and my hubby is 40 and we have been together for almost 8 years, married almost 2. A few years ago he got diagnosed with FM and on top of that he had a bad car accident about 10 yrs ago with 2 failed back surgeries. He is in misery every day. He still gets up, goes to work, helps me around the house, fixes things that are broken, but lately I notice he is even more tired than usual. He is always feeling out of it or hurting, and I don't know how to help. Massages don't even help him anymore. I told him he needs to try that new FM med, Lyrica? He is on pain pills every day, but sometimes I don't think they help. We really need to change our lifestyles as well, both smoke, probably don't eat the way we should. But he is definately too young to be feeling this way everyday. Does anyone have any suggestions or things he/we could start doing differently, or is there anything specific you do for your FM? Thanks a bunch!