Its just scary to hear someone say "your ultrasound was abnormal" mainly I'm trying not to get myself worked up and not to let my sister know until after the biopsy. I hope she doesn't get upset at us for not telling her but she doesn't need this extra stress with the baby on the way. My mom was telling my aunt with all the stuff she did for my grandmas and my great aunt and my dad when they were sick this is new terriorty for her. I told her not to worry so much about me. I don't want to be a burden on people and I honestly don't like it when my family worries about me. I think I read somewhere thats one of the reasons why people with medical issues get into these depressions. They feel like they are being a burden on their family.