I have been reading a lot about narcissism and my mom fits the profile to a T.Undiagnosed of course. She has a golden child,invisible or forgotten child and the scapegoat. She actively encouraged the golden child to call me names and hurl insults at me.Mine was classic narcissistic household, complete with a lot of flying monkeys whom my parents groomed and lovebombed.That was a horrific scenario to grow up in.I thought I was the only one,an unlucky child to be born in that dysfunction. After googling about it online and then coming to this forum,now I know there are others too.My heart goes out to all of you.Hugs.