Oh LT, hugs my dear!!! I would find that very distressing! And I would not like to hear that something I was doing was considered annoying by my T. Although I've been worried that I've been annoying to my boss and coworkers this week so maybe that is my stuff coming out! Sorry if it is! I can see how that would be painful. I'm joining Lost and sitting with you in your discomfort. I hope your T gets back to you sooner rather than later. And that it is helpful. Not more harmful....