LT, I don't think meeting for group consultation once every two months (why even bother?!) or a lack of a supervisor to turn to are at the core of the problem.

For me, I would have difficulty working with your T because, at his core, he does not seem to be a person given to self-reflection. He only seems to own his part in things when you force him to in some way... whether by you confronting him or by the size of your emotional response. I'm perhaps too given to reflection, but I'm not sure I could work with a T who needs to be prompted to do it.

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