Thanks! I forgot to add, she also had the gall to write in her text, "see you around the group on Facebook" as though nothing had happened and we were still friends.

That...seems like a perfect example of gaslighting someone, doesn't it? Pretending that reality (her bullying me online, me calling her out for it, then me drawing the boundary of ending our friendship after a year) is different than what it really is.

I can only imagine what her adult sons went through, along with her first husband (now I doubt the truth of everything she told me about her life details), if she's gaslighting me after she bullies me online the way she has done.

Bullet dodged indeed.