Dear T
How are you? What happened to you? Is it really going to get better? May I bring you some small present or card when we see each other? Nothing unethic.
I am about to do something I’m not sure you’d approve to try to come to terms with trauma but you could not tell me what you think, if I may gain from it or make it worse so now I have to decide on my own and feel so lost..
But most of all, I want you to heal and feel good again as soon as possible, take all the time you need and more for work, I just want you to recover.