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Old May 24, 2022, 05:11 PM
Holly Golightly 3 Holly Golightly 3 is offline
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I have been dealing with what I think to be a sociopath for almost a year now. He was in jail for 6 months of our almost year relationship. This was probably his sixth time in jail. Anyway, he keeps trying to hook me in and the problem is, I just found out I am pregnant. I told him and of course he doesn't seem to care and he is more worried about stalking his estranged wife and 2 kids he has not seen in over a year. There is a lot more to this story, but I just want to make sure my thread goes through before I write out my long novel. Some background information: he is 37 no high school diploma or ged, in and out of jail since he was 15, no substantial job history. I helped him get a job by pushing him to apply and had a friend of mine do me a favor and hire him at the factory he works at. He also has been in trouble with the law since he was 13. He owes thousands in fines and has no driver license. He is a recovering alcoholic and drug abuser.
Possible trigger:
He tried to put all the blame on me by calling me a psycho and jealous and such, but I have good reasons to be skeptical and not believe him about certain things. Not only his past, which I know and have tried not to judge him by, but also some of the things he has done while we were together. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to raise a child on my own but I also do not think he is fit to be in the child's life by his current and past relationship with his other children that have not seen him in over a year or do not want to see him. What should I do? I tried to give him a chance and hope he would change and believed him when he said he wanted to change for me...but I have not seen much change in the past 6 months. Help please.

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